What's shown
In the shot, Leonid Agutin sits in the red coach's chair in the studio of The Voice. He's leaning forward, one hand raised in a gesture of confusion, and his face conveys intense anxiety: eyebrows raised, eyes wide open, lips pressed into a tense grimace. Next to him, on the armrest, is a large red button that the coach uses to turn the chair toward the contestant.
In the background are stage lights and a contestant on the show. It's the facial expression and the gesture that make the shot so striking: it looks as though the singer is making a decision that will determine the contestant's fate, and that dramatic pause became the basis of the meme. The shot conveys the tension of a TV studio: the whole setting gives the sense that the decision is being made in public, in front of everyone.
Origin
The Voice is the Russian version of the international format in which coaches pick contestants by voice alone, without seeing them. The show's fifth season on Channel One aired in the spring of 2017. The shot hit the internet during this period, and its expressiveness quickly caught users' attention. The format is built around blind auditions, so the moment the chair turns becomes the episode's dramatic peak, which is exactly why the shot lends itself so easily to being pulled out of context.
The exact author of the shot and the first post that kicked off the meme couldn't be established, so its origin is passed down through reports from themed online communities and the media. By late April 2017, online outlets were already listing it among the best memes of the month, and according to media reports the image spread beyond the Russian-speaking segment as well.
How it's used
The typical use is as a caption for a situation that calls for a tough decision: "Reply to the boss or stay quiet," "Open an account at an unfamiliar bank." The image is posted when the situation is heavy and emotional, or when someone is desperately making an uncomfortable choice. For example, the caption "Submit an application for the job of my dreams" or "Tell a friend the truth about their new haircut" plays out the same drama.
Over time the meme picked up variations: captions were written about hitting "Send" after a long letter, or about finally deciding to go to the dentist. The comic effect comes from the contrast between the mundane trigger and the heroic drama on the singer's face.
Why the meme works
The main comic device is transplanting a dramatic moment from a TV show into everyday life. Agutin's gesture is recognizable: a raised hand and a strained look at the button, as if everything depended on it. One glance is enough for a viewer to understand that the decision is important, and the meme easily transfers onto any situation with a flair for the dramatic.
The meme also rests on how open the image is. Agutin is a public figure, and the joke targets the emotional moment itself rather than any personal qualities. That makes the format harmless and easy to understand, which is why the image is still used as a universal reaction to a difficult choice. The joke doesn't require knowing the singer's biography or the show itself, so it's understood even by those who've never watched it.